15 Mental Health Tips for Christians
The list of Bible Verses for mental health is towards the bottom of this post. Mental health for Christians can be a risky topic to discuss, depending who is sitting at the table. Unfortunately, mental health still holds a stigma in society. Yes, even in the church.
What is mental health?
MentalHealth.gov describes it like this: Mental health includes our emotional, psychological, and social well-being. It affects how we think, feel, and act. It also helps determine how we handle stress, relate to others, and make choices. Mental health is important at every stage of life, from childhood and adolescence through adulthood.
Over the course of your life, if you experience mental health problems, your thinking, mood, and behavior could be affected. Many factors contribute to mental health problems, including:
- Biological factors, such as genes or brain chemistry
- Life experiences, such as trauma or abuse
- Family history of mental health problems
Mental Health and the Church
According to 2014 research by evangelical polling organization Lifeway, only 27 percent of churches have established plans to help families affected by mental illness. Nearly two-thirds of religiously observant Protestant Christians with depression reported wanting their churches to speak openly about mental illness, but 66 percent of pastors said they spoke to their church on the topic once a year or less.
This article says their survey also finds one-third of victims were attending church before their death, but few pastors knew of their struggle.
Mental Health for Christians
1. It’s OK to not be okay.
It’s good to recognize there is a problem. Denial may keep you stuck in the yuck.
2. Don’t believe everything you think.
Breaking all negative thought processes is important. Get out of that “stinkin thinkin”.
3. You deserve to get help.
You are important, needed and loved. You deserve to get the help, counsel and medical attention needed to get through this. When you pray, ask God to put the right people in your life to help and encourage you.
4. Don’t feel ashamed to get the help or medicine you need.
You wouldn’t suggest someone with cancer, diabetes or Lyme disease to go without seeking medical help, so why would you deny yourself the help you need?
5. Don’t stop your medication without talking to your Dr.
A friend of mine stopped taking her meds because her husband complained it made her fat. (insert angry face emoji here) So she stopped her meds in hopes of keeping her husband happy. In the end, he left because of her mental roller coaster. She tried so hard, but she needed the medication. Don’t stop taking your meds without speaking to your Dr first.
6. Journaling/Tracking your days will help you observe any patterns.
Keeping a daily journal of what is happening in your world, how many hours you sleep, what you are eating, amount of exercise you get, how you are feeling, etc will all help you and your counselor and or Dr get a better overall picture of any patterns that may be happening in your life.
7. Work to be happy. Perfection is overrated.
Sometimes it’s ok to just make it to feeling ok.
8. Make a note of 3 things you are grateful for.
It’s really hard to feel down when you are focused on the good things in your life. We all have things to be grateful for. Keeping a gratitude & prayer journal is super helpful.
9. Let people help you.
There is no shame in asking for help. That’s what family and friends are for…..share the load!
10. Set boundaries.
Setting boundaries makes us responsible for our own feelings, choices, thoughts, actions and desires. It also let us and those around us know what we are not responsible for.
11. It’s ok to say no
There is no quicker way to resentment than saying yes to everyone and everything. Living an overwhelmed life is not living the life that God wants for you.
12. Allow yourself time to grieve your loss, just don’t stay stuck there.
It’s ok (and don’t let anyone rush you) to grieve you loss. Feel sad. It’s ok. Just don’t get stuck there. Make sure you are taking steps to move forward.
13. Storms in life can be good for us.
Hard times in life can help us to grow as a person, grow our character, grow in wisdom, grow in compassion and grow in our faith in the Lord.
14. Third Party Perspective is good.
My counselor told me once to compare my situation to that of a friend or family member I loved. Would I want my loved one to go through what I’m going through? What advice would I give my friend? Then take your own advice.
15. Jesus should be the first one you turn to.
Pray. At times it may seems like God is absent, but He is not. We can be so easily deceived, especially while we are in pain. Make your daily prayer and bible reading time a high priority in your life. The closer you walk with Jesus, the more healing and wisdom He gives us.
Bible Verses for Mental Health
“Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all comprehension, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”
1 Peter 5:7
casting all your anxiety on Him, because He cares for you.
“Peace I leave with you; My peace I give to you; not as the world gives do I give to you Do not let your heart be troubled, nor let it be fearful.
2 Timothy 1:7
“For God has not given us a spirit of timidity, but of power and love and discipline.”
“So do not worry about tomorrow; for tomorrow will care for itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.”
2 Corinthians 10:5
“We are destroying speculations and every lofty thing raised up against the knowledge of God, and we are taking every thought captive to the obedience of Christ,”
“Come to Me, all who are weary and heavy-laden, and I will give you rest. “Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and YOU WILL FIND REST FOR YOUR SOULS. “For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.”
“For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory that is to be revealed to us.”
I hope this article brings some type of encouragement to you. Especially if you or someone you know is suffering with mental health issues. You are worthy of good things. You are loved. You are wanted.
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